my reply above wasnt intended to be facetious in any sense

like i said, the g spot is between her ears , not between her legs, that’s the classic mistake everybody makes. banging away will get you nowhere.

it really isnt like strumming a guitar and expecting virtuouso music — stay away from that and just discover whats in her mind, and use that.

— -when she does herself her mind isnt blank — -it has images in it not just sensations

you have to tap into those images and let the ‘physical’ aspect follow the images

and your more likely to hit orgasm when shes at her peak of need — -rather that having sex at odd times when the guy wants it — -but of course whether she will initiate or not, i cant say