If a man thinks ‘’its over’’ after the ‘’sex act’’ — -(I detest that term but can’t think of a better one,) then that’s why she masturbates afterwards

for her it isn’t over — -for her its never ‘’over’’ — -it just rises and falls in waves over time, and if her man can’t get used to that and deal with it, then the ‘’sex life’’ is going to die — -and probably the relationship as well

A woman is multi orgasmic in the right situation, whereas the poor old guy isn’t (get used to it)— -so there has to be a buildup — -and the slow take down afterwards.
she might want half a dozen orgasms for starters before things get going, then a few more during, and a couple for dessert.

Stay with her and give her as many as she wants, even if your hand gets tired — -just DO IT.

Far fetched? All down you guys, to create it for her. You have to learn certain skills that go beyond that one orgasm and ‘you’re finished’ scenario. That’s not how sex works, not if you want it to be a class act .

for her it isn’t ‘’all over’’ — -for her it can last all night and if you don’t have the stamina, I can only suggest you get in training. Or give up. Sex is all about giving, and giving a single orgasm just isn’t enough for most women

Remember her G Spot is between her ears, not between her legs — — -few ‘sex guides’ will tell you that — -so learn to TALK! Sufficiently aroused, a woman can pop off through wordplay alone. A nice dirty whispered story can do amazing things.

A good semi-autobiographical novel

Need (Francesca Anderssen Amazon)

goes into the desperate female urge pretty deeply. A bit kinky, well, very kinky really, but that’s mainstream now anyway

co-author of The End of More, in paperback and kindle on Amazon http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00D0ADPFY email pagett.communications@blueyonder.co.uk

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